Never been a better time to support LOCAL businesses

Over the past 6 months, we have all gone through an extremely difficult ordeal. 2020 has been challenging for most everyone, to say the least. All of our lives have changed in some way. For some, its been just the inconvenience of having to work from home. Others, have had to take on the additional challenges of being both parent and teacher for their children. Some have battled severe illness, some have had to cope with depression. Many have lost jobs and now, many more business owners are facing the possibility of never opening their doors again. The times have been trying, strained, strange and often devastating.

But, there is a glimmer of hope as we move through this crisis. Around the country, many places are opening back up, even if on a limited basis. Several businesses have changed their business model to not only accommodate those stuck at home but also to stay alive. Many have given as much as they could to keep their staff open during this difficult time. But, as the days and weeks have drug on, it has become increasingly difficult for them to stay afloat. When this crisis has passed, (AND IT WILL PASS) unfortunately, many of our favorite establishments may not have survived the fallout of the last several months. Many will be amazing new places that you heard great things about last fall and had meant to visit this spring, yet never had the chance. Still, just as many will be well established, community staples that have stood 40 or 50 years. No one is immune to this crisis, which is why I am writing this reminder today. Because, if there ever was a time to support our local businesses it is NOW!

The first reason to support our local businesses should be relevant to most of us – these businesses are the backbone of our community. These are the folks who sponsor Little League teams, provide charitable donations to local schools and organizations, and take pride in calling places like Franklin, East Nashville and Kingston Springs home. Without them, we lose the local flavor and variety that make Tennessee such a wonderful place to live. It makes our hometowns unique and special. These are our neighbors, our friends and our family. Home would just not be the same without them as part of the fabric of our community.

Secondly, more people are employed by small business owners than any other employer in America. I used to work in the insurance industry and this was a statistic that always stood out for me. While we think of major corporations like GM, Boeing, or Microsoft providing 100’s of thousands of jobs for Americans, it is in fact small businesses (those employing 100 people or less) that make up 92% of the employment in our country. This actually comes from US Department of Labor statistics and while it fluctuates a percentage or two depending on the year, its been a fairly steady rate for the last 50 years.

These businesses are also interconnected and dependent on each other. If a restaurant closes, not only are their employees impacted, but so are their local vendors, cleaning crews, and equipment service providers. During good times, if a restaurant closes, these other businesses can often recover as someone else will open a new establishment and they can replace the lost business. But, during a crisis such as this, with many establishments being shut down, these seemingly unrelated businesses are also struggling to keep their businesses open and their employees in jobs.

Finally, our local businesses do not have the same playing field as that of the big companies such as Walmart, Amazon and Home Depot. Unfortunately, they lack the resources, economies of scale and of course, government protections procured by lobbyists that Fortune 500 companies are afforded. That, in itself, makes navigating the 21st century difficult in the best of times. But, during the COVID -19 shutdown, it has made survival next to impossible.

Look, I know we are all feeling the pinch right now. And ordering online from Amazon or Walmart is not only convenient, but often cost a little less. But my plea to you is to consider buying local, especially right now. Even if that means less convenience and maybe cost an extra dollar or two. The big companies will weather this storm, but our local family may not. Once those great places that make our towns home are gone, they aren’t coming back. And personally, I’d rather eat a great woodfired pizza from SkyKing Pizza in Kington Springs than mass produced Pizza Hut. I’d rather buy my coffee from RedByrd Coffee in Leiper’s Fork than Starbucks. And I’d rather grab my next winter jacket from Bink’s Outfitters in downtown Franklin than Dick’s Sporting Goods. Because, these are the types businesses that make middle Tennessee home. For me, its worth it…and I hope it is for you as well.

Until next time, shop local and keep livin’ the dream.

Kevin

Livin’ the Dream in TN Merchandise – available now

I just wanted to share a quick message for all my Livin’ The Dream in TN readers. We have developed some great new merchandise for our fans. While the website will be updated in the next week to include all of our t-shirt options, we have a selection of masks, accessories, and our first t-shirt available now at teespring.com. Just use the following link to check out our online store:

https://teespring.com/stores/live-the-dream-3

Until later, keep livin’ your dream!

Kevin

PICK OF THE WEEK: Willco TN- The local company dedicated to its LOVE of Williamson County

WillCo Tennessee

When I started this blog, I had an intention to write about the great local spots, businesses, people and events that make Middle Tennessee such an amazing place to live. Over the last year, I have been fortunate enough to meet some amazing people along the journey, many who have become friends. However, this is the first time I actually get to write about a new business from a longtime friend. I’m excited to introduce you today to Willco TN, which is a local business dedicated to promoting businesses and opportunities in Williamson County, TN.

Owners Cory and Mandy Koslin are no strangers to the Middle Tennessee community. Since graduating from Vanderbilt University and the University of Florida, respectively, they have called Middle Tennessee home. After moving to College Grove, TN in 2016, Cory and Mandy had the idea to build a business that supported the local community , used local suppliers and highlighted local events and organizations. Thus, Willco TN was born.

Over the past couple of years, Willco TN has actively partnered with local businesses to promote Williamson County living. Using a combination of social media and their website, Wilco TN has covered restaurant openings, community events and music festivals in the area. If you have visited the Franklin Farmers Market, Pilgrimage Arts & Music Festival, or the local youth basketball league, you have probably seen Cory (at 6’5″ he’s hard to miss) or Mandy decked out in their Willco t-shirts and caps, probably even sipping water from a Willco tumbler. Hopefully, you have had the privilege of speaking with them because they truly are two of the nicest people you could ever meet.

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Even with their cool merch, until now, getting a Willco hat, t-shirt or tumbler was only possible if you were a friend of the boss (Mandy, Cory has no say in this matter). But, that all changed last week as Willco TN has OFFICIALLY launched its online store on its website. On it, you will find their assortment of hats, t-shirts and tumblers, all made in Middle Tennessee by local suppliers. Just follow this link https://willcotn.com/ and check out their online store for more details. Or follow them on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/willcotn/ or Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/willcotn/.

Until next time, keep supporting local businesses. Always remember, that Life’s an adventure, get out and live it! And most importantly, Keep livin’ the dream folks.

  • Kevin

I’m Back – and this time for good!

Good afternoon folks. It has been some time since I last posted and during that time the entire world seems have gone through some kind of trauma and I am no exception. Over the past eight months, I have had to take some time off from Livin’ the Dream in TN to tend personal and family concerns. Since last fall, I started a new job with a local radio station, lost that job when Covid-19 hit, turned ANOTHER year older (not happy about that) – and that was just five months of challenges and changes that I went through. In April, we lost my father to vascular dementia, which made the anxiety, depression and isolation of the quarantine that much more difficult for me and my family. Finally, in June, as it looked like we might be resuming some since of normalcy, all hell broke loose with protests, riots and a complete melt down of American society.

As my blog has always sought to spotlight great local businesses, people and events in Nashville and throughout the middle Tennessee area, the last few months has made doing so somewhat of a challenge. Unfortunately, we have lost many great places due to the economic shutdown. And many of the events and festivals that I would normally cover in my posts, have been postponed or canceled altogether this year. So, unfortunately, I have been unable to give you my thoughts on the Music City Irish Festival, Bonnaroo, or CMA Fest this year. Hopefully, they will return in 2021 and we can spotlight them then.

I would like to catch you up on my life and a few travels I’ve had since I last wrote. So, I added another section where I can post my random thoughts on both my life and the what’s going on in the world in general. In this I will cover things that are weighing on my mind. If you want to read my essays, I encourage you to do so. I will try and bring some humor and humanity to each of my writings and keep things as light as I can. However, we are living in difficult times, so some things I post may seem heavy at times. Just know that I am posting them to either tell my story or give a different perspective on things we all are struggling with daily. This blog is, in the end, my perspective of life. And unlike social media forums, I am not here to argue, bully or push a narrative. I am simply observing, relaying and living my dream here in Tennessee.

Hopefully, sooner rather than later, I will be able to get back out on the road, bringing you new stories of cool places, amazing people and exciting events. That is my hope anyway. But for the time being, please bear with me as I write from my heart on some of my experiences and insights the last few months. Maybe, I can help someone out there who is experiencing some similar things. And if nothing else, maybe it will save me a trip to the therapist when all is said and done. Either way, I find that a win.

Thanks again for joining me on my long, strange trip. Hope you enjoy the ride.

Until next time, keep livin the dream folks!

Middle Tennessee Seasonal Tricks & Treats: Oct. 18th-31st

Its October and as the temps drop, the Halloween season heats up with an assortment of thrills for both young and old happening all around the midstate area. Middle Tennessee is host to many great seasonal offerings ranging from pumpkin patches, haunted houses and even zombie hayrides. There are many cool things to check out the next couple of weekends, too many in some respects to mention all of them here. So, I’ve taken it on myself to cull it down a bit and highlight some of the best attractions happening now through the rest of October.

PUMPKIN PATCH & CORN MAZE at Gentry’s Farm in Franklin, TN.

Every October, families from around the area gather for fun down on Gentry’s farm. Just west of Franklin on Highway 96, the 6th generation family farm opens up each weekend in October, welcoming children and adults of all ages for some old fashioned Halloween fun. Check out the petting zoo, take a ride on the hay wagon, test your skills in the corn maze, sip apple cider and pick out your own pumpkin for the pumpkin patch. Who knows, maybe this is the pumpkin patch the Great Pumpkin will rise from this year. So get in touch with your inner Charlie Brown and Linus and come check it out. I’m not sure on the pet policy, so you may wanna leave Snoopy at home on this one.

NASHVILLE NIGHTMARE – Madison, TN

When I was a kid, I loved going to haunted houses. The anticipation of a good fright while I stood in line was almost as fun as the actual haunted house itself. But there was always one problem, the experience, while fun, was always over too soon. Had Nashville Nightmare been around in my youth, that would not have been a problem for me. With five (yes, 5!) haunted houses on the property, you are sure to get your fill of frights and thrills during your trip. I have done this haunted house several times in the last few years and each your it grows to become more and more intricate. The actors are great, the scenes are spooky and animatronics will startle you just at the right time. Lines can be a bit long, but its well worth the wait. Welcome to my nightmare, I think you’re going to like it!

SLAUGHTERHOUSE – Hermitage, TN

This is Nashville’s longest running haunted attraction and as the granddaddy of them all, should be on your haunted house bucket list. With the recent construction expansion in downtown Nashville, Slaughterhouse has moved their location to Lebanon Pike in Hermitage. Now in the old Courtyard Theater, the thrills are spookier and more chilling than ever before. If you are heading out, just a word of advice, be on your guard when you encounter Michael Myers. I about wet myself last time I encountered him at Slaughterhouse. I will not say anymore…except, that you have been warned!

MILLERS THRILLERS HAUNTED WOODS AND ZOMBIE HAYRIDE – Columbia, TN

This is an adventure not for the faint of hearted. Dare to venture into the haunted woods for an hour long stroll down one of the spookiest trails around. No Children under 10, so its probably best to eave the little tykes at home for this adventure. If the haunted woods just conjures up too many Friday The 13th memories for you, maybe you would prefer channeling Rick Grimes and taking out some zombies with a paintball gun instead. You and your crew can take on the Walking Dead as you tour the fields on a hay wagon. Not a bad way to spend an October evening, if you ask me.

NASHVILLE HAUNTED TOURS – Nashville, TN

Check out the haunted history of downtown Nashville as your lantern-bearing tour guide takes you on a half mile journey through downtown Nashville, recounting the spooky tails of grim hauntings that have plagued parts of the city for years. Its sure to send chills up your spine.

BOO AT THE ZOO – Nashville, TN

Family friendly fun each weekend in October. Come out with the kids and trick -or-treat, join the Howl-o-ween hayride, play carnival games, jump on the bounce houses and of course, check out your favorite animals and zoo exhibits.

BELL WITCH CAVE – Adams, TN

If you want your hauntings a little more real, take the drive up to Adams, TN and check out the Bell Witch Cabin and Cave. For those of you who didn’t grow up in the area and hear the story at sleepovers and campouts, this is the site of the supernatural haunting of John Bell and his family in 1817. The story of the haunting and family torment has been written about many times and is a staple in Tennessee lore. During the last two weekends in October, the town of Adams hosts events to retell the story and take tours of the Bell family home as well as the cave where the Bell Witch (which is really a spirit) named Kate is said to inhabit. Maybe its remnants of my 8 year old psyche, but this story still give me goosebumps and the midnight tour makes the hair stand up on the back of my neck. So, if you want to live a little adventure straight out of Supernatural, this is definitely the local Halloween experience for you.

Nashville/Middle TN Weekend Events 10/11 -10/13/19

As always, there is a lot happening in the area this weekend. If you are looking for fun things to do, I suggest you get out and look around, because you are bound to find something. I’m going to make this week’s listings fairly short and quick, but hopefully something I highlight here will spark an interest for you. I have a special posting coming out this week that will highlight specific Halloween and other seasonal offerings, so they won’t be mentioned here. Please be on the look out for it at the first of next week.

MUSIC EVENTS FOR THE WEEKEND

EXIT 111 Festival – Manchester, TN 10/11-10/13/19

Are you a metal head? Do you still long for the days of thrashing in the pit to your favorite hard rock and heavy metal band? If so, check out the three day lineup for this year’s Exit 111 festival down on the famous Bonnaroo Farm in Manchester, Tennessee. According to the band’s website, Friday night’s Lynard Skynard show will be their last ever. So, you have one last chance to yell “Free Bird” at the top of your lungs. It will also be Slayer’s last show ever in Tennessee on Saturday. Saturday’s headliner Def Lepard will surely bring some “Pyromania” as they rock for the ages. The 3 day festival will wrap up Sunday night (hopefully) with Guns n Roses. I say hopefully Sunday night, because Axel Rose may delay coming on stage until the wee hours of Monday morning for all anyone knows. Still, the weekend should be a great time for headbangers and 80’s nostalgia rockers alike.

Trigger Hippy – Basement East (East Nashville) 10/11/19

If you’ve followed my posts on Instagram, you know I love the Black Crowes. Not as much as my tribe members Eric and Brent, but love them none the less. Fresh off releasing his new best selling tell all book, Hard to Handle, drummer Steve Gorman and his new band, Trigger Hippy hit the stage Friday night at The Basement East. Expect a rock and roll meets soul explosion that only Trigger Hippy can adequately provide. And check out their new album, Full Circle and Then Some as it is amazing.

FULL MOON PICKIN’ PARTY – Percy Warner Park (Nashville) 10/11/19

This year’s series summer series of full moon pickin’ parties wraps up on Friday evening at Percy Warner Park. Great bluegrass in a family friendly setting under a Harvest Moon. What better way is there to spend a Friday night. This will be the last one for 2019, so if you miss it, you will have to wait until May of 2020 to catch the next one.

EVENTS AND FESTIVALS 10/11/ – 10/13/19

The Nashville Film Festival – Regal Hollywood 27 (10/11-10/13/19)

The 50th Annual Nashville Film festival wraps up its 12 day run on Sunday. So, if you haven’t made it out yet, time is running down. I wrote about this last week so for more detail please see last weeks posting.

The 40th Annual Nashville Oktoberfest – Bicentennial Mall/ First TN Park (Germantown) 10/11-10/13/19

Get out your lederhosen and get ready for some polka music and chicken dancing as you celebrate Oktoberfest in the heart of Music City. Admission to the event is FREE, however VIP tickets are still available and I recommend them, as they get you access to VIP tents, events and special food and beer tastings not open to the public. Since moving from Germantown to the Bicentennial Mall, it has become much easier to navigate the large crowds, but still you should expect some waiting in line. Nearby parking will be a premium, so early arrival is also recommended.

The 31st Annual Southern Festival of Books – 6th and Union Street (Nashville) 10/11 -10/13/19

The Southern Festival of Books is a free, 3 day celebration of the written word held annually in downtown Nashville. This is a family friendly event and attracts more than 25,000 people to meet their favorite authors and discover new works by emerging writers. If you are an avid reader, this event is what you’ve been waiting for all year.

Food Truck Feast in East Nashville – 400 Davidson Street (East Nashville) 10/12/19

It’s OctoberFEAST! Come celebrate the great food and diversity of our growing food truck and foodie scene with 20 of Nashville’s finest food trucks, live music , great local beer, outdoor shopping and a skyline view of Nashville. There is FREE admission and FREE Parking for this event. Come out and enjoy the cooler weather and great food offerings on a wonderful fall Saturday afternoon.

Dolly Parton’s 50th Opry Celebration – Grand Ol’ Opry House (Donaldson) 10/12/19

Since Ken Burn’s Country Music ended the Opry has been hosting event after event. Last week was the Opry’s birthday party and this week the party continues with Dolly Parton performing in her 50th anniversary since joining the beloved institution. As I mentioned in last week’s post, I rarely mention the Opry as it is a weekend staple in the community. But when special events happen, ignoring it would be a crying shame. Dolly Parton IS Tennessee Royalty (ask any native Tennessean) and a special night in her honor will always be recognized by this writer. If you were considering going to an Opry show, you should check this one out for sure.

Other events you may be interested in this weekend:

Spring Hill Art Walk (Spring Hill, TN) 10/12/19

Boo at the Zoo (Nashville Zoo) 10/11/19

Spirits of Sumner 2nd Annual Historic Haunts Bus Tour (Sumner County) 10/11/19

41st Annual Tennessee Crafts Fair – Centennial Park (Nashville) 10/11-10/13/19

Thomas Rhett – Bridgestone Arena (Nashville) 10/12/19

Thompson Square Benefit Concert – Municipal Auditorium (Nashville) 10/12/19

Nashville Zombie Walk for 2nd Harvest Food Bank (Nashville) 10/13/19

As you can see, we once again have a very full and eventful weekend in the area. Get out and enjoy the fall weather now that it’s finally here. Remember, life is an adventure so get out and live it!

Until next time, keep livin’ your dream!

Kevin

Nashville Happening this weekend: Saturday & Sunday (October 5-6)

As I mentioned in my last post, there is so much going on this weekend, that getting to it all in one post was nearly impossible. Hopefully, you were able to take advantage of some of the happenings in town on Thursday evening. If you are still looking for Friday fun and adventure, please see the previous post as I covered tonight’s recommendations there. Today, I want to spotlight some of the cool happenings taking place on Saturday and Sunday. So, rather than waste anymore time with my hyperbole, lets get down to business, shall we….

Scalehound w/ Dean Delray and Feathers (Oct 5) @ The High Watt

Looking for some rock & roll on Saturday night. The High Watt is bringing three great local acts in Scalehound, Dean Delray, and Feathers. If you are in the mood to get your grove on, this will be the place to be. Show starts at 8pm. If you’re going, stop by and say hello (and maybe get a selfie) as I will be checking out this great club rock show.

Nashtoberfest (Oct 5) @ Richland Park

It’s October which means cooler temps and cold Bavarian style beer with your neighbors and friends. Ok, the cooler temps haven’t happened just yet but even low 80’s is welcome relief to the upper 90’s e endured in September. So, what better way to kick things off than with Nashtober Fest brought to us by our good friends at Lightning 100 and Daddy’s Dogs. VIP tickets are $60 but general admission is FREE. The event runs from 2pm-9pm at Richland Park and promises to be a great warmup for next weeks Octoberfest in Germantown.

Shelby Bottoms Boogie 15k Run and 5k Run/Walk (Oct. 5) @ Shelby Bottoms Park

If you’re up early on Saturday and want to get your steps in for the day, there is probably no better way of doing it than a brisk 5k (or 15k if you are into that sort of thing) at Shelby Bottoms. The race takes place on the greenway running along the banks of the Cumberland River in Shelby Bottoms Park. It’s one of the better 5k’s in Nashville as the course is scenic and flat, making for fast times and enjoyable views. Registration begins at 6am and the race starts at 7:30am. Due, in part, to limited space on the greenway path, no dogs or pets can participate. So, bring your friends and family out, just make sure that Fido stays home for this one.

Bike to Jack & Back (Oct. 5 &6) @ Page High School – Jack Daniel’s Distillery

Are you into bicycling? Do you like scenic rides? Heck, do you like Jack Daniel’s whiskey? If the answer to all three of these questions is yes, then maybe you should check out the Bike to Jack and Back this weekend. The annual two day event raises money for MS with participants riding between 60 – 80 miles each day. The event starts at Page High School in Franklin, TN and ends in Lynchburg, TN at the Jack Daniel’s Distillery for an evening of music, camping and events that will conclude with a return ride on Sunday back to Franklin. If you aren’t an avid cyclist, it is recommended that you have trained for the event prior to participation. Still, if you are looking for a fun adventure this weekend and are up for the challenge, I can think of few things more rewarding and fun.

94th Grand Ole Opry Birthday Bash Concert (Oct. 5) @ Grand Ole Opry House

I seldom mention the Opry here because its just a given that on Friday and Saturday nights, the longest running radio show in the country is going to be hosting it’s weekly version of a “good natured riot.” However, when the ol’ girl celebrates another birthday, I feel it needs to be mentioned. In honor of turning 94, the Opry is giving a free concert on the plaza prior to Saturday night’s Opry show. This will include backstage tours of the Opry prior to the night’s shows, which in itself is well worth checking out. I admit, as a Nashville native, I have never seen a show from the Opry seats but I have been able to watch it live from backstage on three occasions and I was impressed each time. And I’m sure with a birthday celebration in full swing, it will be even more impressive.

Bluebird on the Mountain (Oct. 5) @ Dyer Observatory

Come listen to some of Nashville’s best songwriters for the stars while you do a little stargazing of your own at Dyer Observatory on Saturday night. Spread a blanket, unpack a picnic and enjoy a gorgeous Tennessee sunset while listening to the stories and songs of some of the nest to grace the famous Bluebird Café. Stick around after the sun goes down and check out the heavenly view from Dyer Observatory ‘s Seyfert Telescope.

Nashville Predators vs. Detroit Red Wings (Oct.5) at Bridgestone Arena

It’s October, and though it feels like summer, the time is here to go “hockey tonkin” at Bridgestone arena. Fresh off of their opening night win on Thursday, the Preds look to make it a 2-0 start to the season agains old nemesis, the Detroit Red Wings. Tickets will be scarce but can be found, if you look for them. If going, I’d suggest stopping in across the street to Pancho & Lefty’s for some killer tacos or Rippy’s for some tasty BBQ.

8th Annual Porch Fest (Oct. 5) @ West Haven Community in Franklin, TN

The annual front porch pickin’ comes to the West Haven community in Franklin, TN. Plenty of great music will be played on stages and front porches throughout this upscale neighborhood. Food trucks and other vendors will be on hand for this family friendly, FREE event. And, if the past is any indication, you may a surprise celebrity or two stop in and join in a jam. The event begins at 4pm and runs until 10:00 pm.

Tennessee Titans vs. Buffalo Bills (Oct. 6) @ Nissan Stadium

The Tennessee Titans (2-2) , fresh off last week’s win in Atlanta, return home to face the Buffalo Bills (3-1) for a noon kickoff on Sunday. Tickets are still available, so if you are wanting to attend, you should be able to get in the stadium. If you are on the east side (visitor side) however, it will be warm as the sun really shines on that side of the field, so wear sunscreen and dress accordingly. I only say this because my family has owned season tickets there for years and it does get warm, especially in early season games. As is usually the case on home football Sundays, downtown will be rocking before and after the game. So, if you are going to the game, come down early and stay around after to enjoy the spectacle.

Tailgate Fest (Oct. 6) @ Tailgate Brewery on Charlotte Pike

Once again, my friend’s at Tailgate Brewery are celebrating fall with their annual Tailgate Fest. Come taste the new seasonal beers and ciders, listen to great music from the Tennessee Warblers, and participate in uniquely seasonal games and events. Competitions for pumpkin decorating, stein holding, and pumpkin tossing are just of few of the family friendly games and activities on the schedule for the day. Kid and dog friendly which makes this a perfect Sunday afternoon activity for everyone.

ONGOING EVENTS

As I mentioned in the previous posts, there are several events around the area that will still be ongoing over the weekend. This includes the Music City Sports Collectable and Autograph Expo, Trisha Yearwood at the Schermerhorn with the Nashville Symphony, and The Nashville Film Festival.

As you can see, there is a lot happening again this weekend in Music City and around Middle Tennessee. With the weather finally cooling off, it’s a perfect time to get out and enjoy the adventure.

Until next time, keep living your dream.

Kevin

Nashville Weekend Spotlight: Thursday & Friday edition(October 3 -4)

As we turn the page on the calendar from September to October, Nashville and Middle Tennessee offers a jammed pack weekend full of fall fun with a variety of events and happenings. It may still feel like summer (will the 97 degree heat ever end) but fall and all the fun that accompanies it is here. Lots of options and lots of fun, but with a super packed weekend starting on Thursday this week, I felt it would be beneficial to break the weekend down into two parts…I will post Saturday and Sunday events on Friday.

THURSDAY – OCTOBER 3rd

Taste of Nashville at Clementine Hall – The annual event hosted by the Phoenix Club of Nashville is a fundraiser for local youth charities. This year’s theme, “Tacos and Tequila” should be a big hit, especially if you missed taco Tuesday this week.

50th Annual Nashville Film Festival (OCTOBER 3-12) Since 1969, the Nashville Film Festival has been showcasing films from around the world, American Independent films and documentaries as well as up and coming directors and first time film makers. It starts on Thursday and will host a diverse slate of over 300 films during its 10 day run at the Regal Hollywood 27 theater at 100 Oaks. For film buffs, this should be a must do at some point over the weekend.

Trisha Yearwood with the Nashville Symphony (October 3-5): The country superstar kicks of a 3 night residency with the Nashville symphony on Thursday evening at the Schermerhorn Symphony Center in downtown Nashville. She will surely feature many of her hits as well as her newest project, Let’s be Frank which is a tribute to the music of Frank Sinatra.

Opry Country Classics (October 3rd) at The Ryman Auditorium: If you are visiting Nashville for the first time, I would highly recommend this event. Lori Morgan, Larry Gatlin and more will be performing country classics on stage at the mother church. If you recently watched the Ken Burn’s documentary “Country Music” this is your opportunity to see some great country performances where it all began.

GRiZ – Ride Waves Tour: Season Two (October 3) at War Memorial Auditorium: Nashville is not only about country music. If your are more geared toward EDM, this show promises to be off the charts fun for you.

Nashville Predators vs. Minnesota Wild (October 3) at Bridgestone Arena: It may feel like August outside, but the ice has been prepped and the boys of winter will face off with the Wild in the 21st season opener on Thursday evening in Smashville. Unfortunately, I am not one of the lucky ones to have a ticket to this sold out event, but it won’t stop me from venturing downtown to join in what will surely be an electric atmosphere around the arena.

FRIDAY OCTOBER 4th

Music City Sports Collectibles & Autograph Show (October 4-6) at The Factory in Franklin: 75+ Tables of industry top dealers will be buying and selling in this 3 day event. Autograph seekers will have opportunity to meet and greet some of their favorite sports and music stars over 3 days starting Friday. On display will be a vast array of offerings ranging from signed jersey’s and sports memorabilia to autographed guitars and musical equipment. This should be fun for collectors ranging from 5 to 95.

Al Menah Shrine Circus (October 4-6) at Municipal Auditorium: Since 1906, the Shriner’s have been putting on a show and raising money for their children’s hospitals around the nation. This is a fun show for members of the whole family with elephants, big cats, acrobats, motorcycle and go cart stunts, and CLOWNS. So, while navigating through downtown, you haven’t stepped onto the set of IT3, so don’t fear! It’s probably just Sam the Shriner heading over to entertain the kids. He’s harmless, I swear!

Third Coast Comedy Show (October 4) at Third Coast Comedy Club: Each Friday, the Third Coast Comedy Club hosts some of the funniest improv and sketch comedy around. The entire show is made up entirely on the spot with input of suggestions from the audience. We all could use a laugh now more than ever and this amazing comedy troupe brings just what you need to get your weekend started off right following a tough week at work.

Cowboy Mouth (October 4) at Exit/In: “Jenny says – turn up the radio!” You can thank me later for the earworm I just implanted in your brain….Your favorite 1990’s party band is back in full form at the classic venue on Elliston Place. Come sing your lungs out as they rock the house with what promises to be an epic show, as is usual with them.

Tacos & Mas Tacos Beer Fest (October 4) @ Mayday Brewery: Looking to get out of Nashville for the evening, why not take the short drive don I-24 to Murfeesboro and check out this event at Mayday Brewery. They will feature food trucks (Catarina’s and Chillito’s) as well as their 22 beers, cider and hard seltzer – all brewed on premises. They will also be featuring a select group of pop-up local artists at this event, which should make for a, well, EVETFUL start to your weekend.

As you can imagine, this is just some of the many events and happenings taking place this weekend around the area. Unfortunately, I can not list everything in this one post. But, I do think it’s a decent start to help you plan your weekend calendar. I will be posting more regarding the second half of the weekend on Friday, so you won’t miss a beat.

Until Friday, keep living your dream.

Kevin

Getting out of my own way: lessons learned in finding my path in life

Today’s post has nothing to do with the cool places and people in my area, but I will return to that tomorrow. It’s not a recap of an epic event I attended not a run down of great things happening in town this week. No, today is a bit of self reflection and shared experience that I want to write about as I know I can not be the only one out there who continually sabotages their own happiness and success in life. If you are like me and struggle from time to time with meaning, purpose, happiness and joy, please read on. If you have all that figured out, then please read and comment because it can help the rest of us.

Getting out of my own way has been the single biggest battle I’ve had to endure my entire adult life. It began around the age of 20 and still haunts me today at 48. Its habitual, its ingrained in my DNA and something I struggle daily to overcome. It has stunted growth, limited success and killed many a relationship. It has left me rudderless on a rough sea at times and clueless about how to move forward. But, once you learn that the battle is within you, then there is hope to move forward and come out on top. The following are steps that I am taking in my journey to “win the battle within” and I hope you will find them beneficial for you as well.

Stop overthinking EVERYTHING

This is probably the number one problem I have endured in “getting in my own way.” I am a thinker by nature. As a child, I was a good student and although the tendency to question “what if” served me well in the classroom, it has been horrible for me in the real world. It has led to indecisiveness, periods of being stuck and often an inability to enjoy the victories and successes I’ve encountered along the way. At times, it has left me anxious and depressed, which can be debilitating. Overthinking has produced a cynicism in me which in turn leads to more and more dissatisfaction and outright anger.

But, there is a solution. And that for me has been to try and live in the moment. If its an amazing moment, I now try to enjoy it. If its a difficult moment, I now realize that it will pass. Thinking consistently about the other side of the coin is not doing me any good and is keeping me from experiencing joy and happiness. Therefore, stopping the overthinking and just living the moment is the most essential start to getting out of my own way.

Having courage to take chances

This goes hand in hand with stop overthinking. We, unfortunately, are conditioned by society to accept the status quo. That conditioning has therefore created in ALL of us a fear of the unknown. Even if the current status is undesirable, it is known to us and we often choose to remain there rather than taking a chance.

I have to remind myself of this everyday. Nothing will change if I don’t make those changes. Even though the unknown is scary, what’s truly scary is living the rest of my life without growth, success and happiness. Following my own path is scary, but I’ve come to realize it is the only real choice I can make to have a fulfilling life.

Know yourself and choose the path that is best for YOU!

I have spent 25 years running down the wrong path. I caved to family and societal pressures to conform to something that was never right for me and thus made me miserable. We have all, at some point, been indoctrinated with living the American dream. Get a career job, climb the corporate ladder, get married, buy a house, and raise a family is ingrained in us from early childhood. It is how those who make the rules – government and corporations – keep us in line and striving for their world view. And while this works for many, for me, it was a daily nightmare. I blamed myself for not fitting in, for feeling different. But, I kept pushing and trying to make it in their world, all the while knowing deep down, it wasn’t for me.

So, when I quit overthinking and had the courage to trust my instincts, I found I gained something else. A knowledge of who I truly am. That knowledge has given me peace of mind and strength to follow my own path. The only regret I have is that it took me so very long to figure it out in the first place.

Stop chasing PERFECTION

My final thought on getting out of your own way is this: perfection does not exist so stop chasing it! There are no perfect jobs, no perfect relationships. Everything takes work and some sacrifice on your part in order for it to be rewarding. But, if you have a passion for the work you are putting in, you will find joy and contentment in the end.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t have standards, but don’t set impossible or unreasonable ones. Everyone of us is flawed in some respect, so demanding perfection in others – be that in the workplace, your local coffee shop, or your significant other – is not only improbable but leads to discontentment and frustration. I have to look in the mirror often and remind myself that I’m not perfect, why should I expect others to be. Rather, the goal for me is now to become the best version of my true self, imperfections and all, that I can be. If we all start from within, we become much more accepting of others and their shortcomings. By doing so, we not only get out of our own way in having a fulfilling life but also become kinder and more tolerant to all of those around us.

Like I stated at the beginning, I’m not even close to mastering any of the recommendations above. But, I am working on them each day, in hopes of pursing a purpose filled and meaningful life. The life I seek is full of adventure and joy. My aim is to live it in the best way I know how. Getting out of my own way is the key, for me, to his occurring.

Until next time, keep living YOUR dream!

Much love,

Kevin

Ken Burn’s latest masterpiece : Country Music

Last night, Ken Burn’s latest offering to documenting the American experience, Country Music, concluded an eight night run on PBS. If you have yet to watch this documentary, I promise not to ruin anything here in my post. But, as my blog does highlight Nashville and the people, places, and events that make this such an amazing city to live in, I wanted to touch on some of the elements that I believe make this a true masterpiece and worth your attention, even if you can’t stand country music.

First and foremost, as native Nashvillians will tell you, it ALL begins with a song. Simple, universal themes such as love, heartache, family, belonging, and a need to have one’s voice heard are essentially at the root of country music. The music has its origins in immigrant fiddle songs, African-American spirituals, gospel hymns, and delta blues. It is a combination of the melodies and stories of the poor, the working class, and those left on the fringes of a society who still to this day, does not value them nor wants them to be heard. And as the artists, ranging from jazz great Winston Marsalis and rocker Elvis Costello to country icons Willie Nelson and Dolly Parton, so eloquently points out, the music is nothing more but three chords and the truth. To the musicians and artists, its just music. To them, it transcends race and class. But, when the corporate world of the music industry discovered a market for it, they did what they always do, segregate it and make artificial divisions that for the artist, doesn’t exist in the first place. I think this theme is not only apparent throughout the series but its a microcosm of what is actually happening in America as a whole. The majority of us have way more in common than we have differences. Look to those who make the rules and run the game, for they are the ones who consistently want us divided in order for them to continue to profit both in money and power.

Secondly, the series points out that great art often springs forth from great pain and tragedy. Country music, when viewed from as a whole, is a true life Shakespearean tragedy. It is made up of flawed individuals who battle with personal demons , have been marginalized by the recording industry and society as a whole and even some who have tragically died young. Still there is an overwhelming since of optimism in the rich stories of the artists who have impacted the medium. Stories of perseverance, rising above the status quo and forging new paths in artistic direction are all on display as well. In a nutshell, country music mirrors the stories of flyover America. It can be heartbreaking and tragic yet still thee is hope for better tomorrows and redemption. That’s what makes it so enduring to so many.

Finally, Ken Burn’s has touched on some music and artists that many may not be familiar with but who’s music has permeated the tapestry of the industry as a whole. From it’s inception, the songs of Jimmy Rogers and The Carter Family have impacted not only country music but many others as well. The songwriting of Kris Kristofferson, Townes Van Zandt, and Guy Clark not only pushed the limits of country music , but added depth and color to the American songbook as a whole. I gained a whole new respect for country icons such as Willie Nelson, Dolly Parton and Johnny Cash as the complexity of these individuals was fully displayed. The pure musical craftsmanship of bluegrass artists was given their just emphasis. And as a Americana music fan, as well as Nashvillian, I was left forever grateful for Emmylou Harris as a driving force in keeping traditional music and the Ryman auditorium alive, to be enjoyed by generations to come.

Of course, there is so many more stories of interest that I failed to touch on here and that’s ok. Everyone gets something different from documentaries such as this. I look forward to watching the series again (and again) in future airings on PBS as I am sure to learn even more. If you are a music fan, a Nashville native or 20th century historian, I highly recommend watching the series. Heck, even the country music haters may find something they enjoy or even love. After all, the great Charlie Parker said it best when asked why he was listening to country on the juke box – “It’s the stories, man!” And in those stories, I believe, we can all find something we can relate to and enjoy.

Until next time, keep livin your dream!

Kevin